It’s almost Christmas HOHOHO

I’ve been really busy lately. Planning Christmas ofcourse.

I must also plan my little girls 9th birthday party. A lot of crafting, baking and decorating will be involved this month. I love december. I just turned 33 years old.

I have an Christmas board on pinterest. You can see it here if you would like. Click here

I stumbled on this wonderful idea to put your christmas cards, by creating an mini-album. This will be on my list for sure this year.

CHRISTMAS CARD BOOKS:

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Wonderful right? You can read the orginal post here.

Have an amazing day/night

 

Emine

Give it the time and you will find your way…

No matter what you are feeling or going through. Know that faith, trust and love will guide, only when you believe it. Open your heart.

Sometimes you will feel like the world is cruel, heartless. It’s all in how you look at it, how you want to see it and in what kind of situation you are in.

Because NO MATTER WHAT: THE POWER IS IN YOU!! AND YOU ALWAYS HAVE A CHOICE (you make choices everyday; are you going to work or not, do you want coffee or tea? etc.).

Others can help you ( i call it coaching) but you and only YOU know what works for you. People can tell you what to do, that won’t help you at all. If someone really wants to help you, he or she will give you material to think about, give you the space and time you need, to come up with the solution YOURSELF)

My whole life I was searching for something or someone to guide me, to help me. But I never found that person. Since I’m observing myself, looking at Ralph’s video’s. I finally feel home in my body. I take care of my body, no matter how hard it is sometimes. Remember: it will fade away when you start trusting the voice within you.

What I do, is I keep a journal ( a few words is enough) and don’t make any decisions. Because something that feels right right NOW, may feel different when you give it the time to feel. Time… that is the key point.

Surrounder yourself with positive energy. Look at your room or house. It will tell all about you!!! When I walk in someone’s room/house, I can FEEL and see what kind of a person he or she is, or there mental state (for example; a dirty or messy house means OR they have other priorities OR they are not in balance with there feelings) So clean your room, house and be creative. What do you don’t want in there anymore? What doesn’t feel right? Take it away.

If your space is inspiring and a bit neat (don’t be obsessive) you will find more peace in your MIND and BODY. Try it!!!!! If it doesn’t work or you don’t want to do it? Think about it. Why does it not work for you? Or Why do you don’t want to do it? And let it go. And give it the TIME!

If it feels good and you are feeling the energy in a positive way. Then it is okay!

We are all in this world to learn. You need to make mistakes in order to grow and learn. You need to fall first, to be able to stand up again.

Like Eminem says in his song: I am way UP to back DOWN.

He doesn’t say this because of an attitude, because he had a hard life and he worked hard to get up.

Life is a rollercoaster. You will fall flat on your face once in a while. The magic is you will always stand up.. And please don’t ever hasitate to seak for help…

ASKING FOR HELP IS VERY DIFFICULT FOR SOME OF US, BUT WHEN YOU DO, IT ONLY SHOWS HOW STRONG YOU ARE. Don’t be AFRAID, you are in charge of your own life. You decide who of what you let in and what not.

Trust your feelings 😉

(sorry for my English, I am from the Netherlands LOL)

Keep your head UP!!!!!

With love,

Emine

HOW TO START A SUCCESSFUL YOUTUBE CHANNEL

Thanks Ralph for sharing this.
I started a blog, because I have A LOT TO SHARE! But my face on youtube??? NO.
Maybe along the way I can make a youtube channel showing my message instead of my face.

Why do I want to do this? To help people. Not for the money. Money ??? What’s that??? I’m glad if i can live paying my bills and food etc.

I want to help especially woman (I am 32 yo), young girls on how to be independent without going through the same horrible things before they realise, that they need NOBODY. Because the power is in you. Put away that mask you are wearing everyday. It didn’t help you yesterday, so it won’t help you tomorrow. Waste of time. Just be you. You are beautiful and strong if you stay true to yourself.
(maybe I should put this up on my blog LOL).
You don’t have to be perfect. Mistakes??? We are just people and we will make mistakes all the time. The power lays in LEARNING FROM YOUR MISTAKES.

i JOT THIS DOWN HERE (WAS NOT MY INTENTION, BUT IT HELPED ME ALONG MY JOURNEY TO BECOME MY GREATEST VERSION)

HOW TO DEAL WITH NEGATIVE SITUATIONS (or if you are not happy with your life right now)
: (Note: if it is very traumatic, go to an professional)

BE AWARE OF THEM, OBSERVE YOURSELF (NO NEED TO POINT WITH YOUR FINGER TO OTHERS OR YOURSELF, YOU WILL FEEL ANGRY,SAD, FRUSTATED, CONFUSED ETC. BUT THEY WILL CONTINUE WITH THERE LIVES. THE ONLY THING YOU ARE DOING IS, MAKING YOURSELF FEEL BAD. AND YOU DON’T WANT THAT, RIGHT?)

TAKE THE TIME TO FEEL ANGRY, SAD ETC. (IF IT HELPS YOU SET A TIMER AND ALLOW YOURSELF TO FEEL THE PAIN. WHEN THE TIMER GOES OFF. YOU NEED TO FIND SOME DISTRACTION WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL BETTER, POWERFULL IS YOU ARE FEELING WEAK AND CRYING. IF YOU FEEL A LOT OF ANGER, GO FOR A WALK, LISTEN TO MUSIC THAT INSPIRES YOU IN A GOOD WAY. FIND OUT WHAT WORKS FOR YOU, MEDITATE, TAKE MINDFULLNESS OR YOGA LESSONS ETC.)

WHEN YOU ARE READY… (GIVE YOURSELF THE TIME, YOU WILL FEEL WHEN YOU ARE READY) DON’T TRUST OTHERS OR ME, TRUST YOURSELF INSTEAD) … BE OBJECTIVE AND BE AWARE OF WHAT HAPPENED AND WHAT YOU CAN DO DIFFERENT THE NEXT TIME. TAKE BABYSTEPS IF NEEDED, ONE STEP AT A TIME, ROME IS NOT BUILD IN ONE DAY EITHER (DON’T BLAME YOURSELF, LEARN FROM THAT EXPERIENCE TO GET STRONGER. JOT IT DOWN ON PAPER AND LET IT GO.
HAVE THE PAPER AROUND YOU ALL THE TIME (LOVE THOSE LITTLE NOTEBOOKS). EVERY TIME SOMETHING COMES UP IN YOUR MIND, A LIGHTBUMB ABOUT THE SITUATION OR YOUR LIFE JOT IT DOWN. When you write it down, your thoughts, feelings etc. They won’t stay stucked in your head. Or start a dairy.

AGAIN: FEEL WHEN YOU ARE READY (NEEDS TIME AND COURAGE, TAKE YOUR TIME) AND READ ONE LINE OR EVERYTHING YOU JOTTED DOWN.

AFTER THIS YOU WILL SEE A PATTERN, (ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU DO THIS MORE OFTEN).

THAT’S WHEN YOU CAN BREAK THAT CIRCLE OF PATTERNS.
DO YOU WANT TO FEEL BAD, FORGET ABOUT ALL OF THIS. THAT IS YOUR CHOICE, AND YES YOU ALWAYS HAVE A CHOICE, BUT YOU DON’T REALISE YOU ARE MAKING THEM. BE AWARE OF THE CHOISES YOU MAKE.

DO YOU WANT TO BREAK FREE, BECOME YOUR GREATEST VERSION AND BE HAPPY AND FREE???? NOW YOU MADE THE RIGHT CHOISE. Congrats.

NOW FOCUS ON THE PATTERNS YOU SEE. YOU CAN CHANGE IT, IF YOU ARE AWARE OF THEM.

YOU ARE NOW BECOMING YOUR GREATEST VERSION AND DIVING DEEP AS RALP SAYS. CAN I GET A HELLLLOOOOOOO 😉

THINK ABOUT MAKING IT DIFFERENT AND BETTER. FOCUS TO TURN NEGATIVITY INTO POSITIVITY.

THINK, YOU ARE HEALING YOURSELF. YOU ARE CREATIVE AND YOU KNOW WHAT’S BEST FOR YOU.

ASK YOURSELF:
WHY AM I DOING THIS OR DID THIS?
HOW CAN I MAKE A DIFFERENCE AND TAKING BABYSTEPS AT A TIME?
IS THIS WHAT I WANT?
NO??? WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE SMALL CHANGES AND STILL STAYING TRUE TO MYSELF?
ETC.

NOW YOU ARE DIVING DEEP.

REMEMBER, WHEN IT GETS REALLY HARD, CONSULT A PROFESSIONAL!!!!!!!!!!

LAST BUT NOT LEAST; WHATCH ALL THE INSPIRING YOU TUBE FILMS FROM RALP SMART. http://www.ralphsmart.com
GET AND STAY INSPIRED.

PEACEEEEEEE…..

love for you all,

diving deep with you all once again.

Emine

RALPH SMART - INFINITE WATERS DIVING DEEP

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Hello World

I’m a 32 yo  mother of 2 precious girls.

I will start blogging again, when I have the time.

Just because I have a lot to share.

Remember, you are your own master. Trust your inner voice and let your feelings guide you. Love yourself so you can be able to love others. (in a not selfish way LOL).

Spread the love ….

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